A warm greeting to you, Madam,

I wish to express my deep appreciation for the morality movement that you are passionately championing. I believe that your efforts are making a more significant impact than you might realize. Recently, I came across your publication in the Saturday Punch on Facebook, and the comments that followed compelled me to share my thoughts.

After going through a divorce a few years back, I re-entered the dating scene only to discover that many men appear to worship sex rather than God. Disturbingly, I encountered attitudes suggesting that a woman who is no longer a virgin forfeits her right to demand sex after marriage; instead, she's expected to present herself for what they call 'sampling.' While some men may not voice this sentiment outright, their demeanor often reflects a deeper disregard for women's dignity. Consequently, I decided to step back from dating for over nine years, choosing to remain celibate. In my search, I found that many who identify as Christians attend church regularly yet lead immoral lives, often pressuring women for sex as if it were their inherent right.

Throughout this time, I've encountered individuals, including monarchs, who attempted to exploit my spiritual stature as a prophet. They would entice me with promises of financial support and marriage but insisted on sexual relations first. I consistently remind them of my commitment to my faith and the importance of abstaining from fornication, but many dismiss my beliefs, prioritizing their sexual desires over spiritual commitments. Who would want a partner who places their carnal urges above the divine? I have found solace and inspiration in your writings, and I commend you for the vital work you are doing. May the Almighty continue to enrich you with strength and perseverance. Amen!

Sincerely,

Ms. Rose

Dear Madam,

I would like to share my own story. I am a single mother of two children in my 30s, and I have followed your journey on Facebook for years. You serve as a profound role model for me, embodying the accomplishments, grace, and beauty that I aspire to. Your powerful influence impacts countless lives, including mine. However, I must confess that I have struggled to adhere to your teachings regarding sexual purity.

My marriage ended nine years ago, and since then, I have faced challenges in securing financial support for my children from my former spouse. Out of desperation, I found myself attracted to married men, which brings me to tears as I write this. I never intended to become involved with men outside of marriage, especially during my single years.

Yet, I have become weary of being used; it feels as though I am merely a pawn in their lives. Each encounter diminishes my self-worth, as these men take advantage of my vulnerabilities, providing temporary comfort and financial support at the cost of my dignity. I find myself stuck in a cycle of dependency, fearing that if I walk away, I may lose the little security I currently have.

I humbly seek your counsel, for I do not feel at peace with the path I have taken.

Warm regards,
T.

Dear T and to all women in similar situations,

I understand that life can sometimes force individuals into difficult circumstances. However, if you are a single mother—or anyone—who chooses to engage with a married man for any favors, including money, it raises concerns about your values. Please forgive my directness, but such decisions can lead to a troubling path.

There are countless single mothers who have faced overwhelming obstacles yet remained steadfast in their commitment to moral integrity. They endured hardship and pain but are now flourishing, often enjoying lives that many men and women in stable relationships can only dream of. Their strength comes from a deep commitment to God, who honors those who remain faithful to Him.

Who says you must sacrifice your integrity to receive help? How can you allow yourself to be used by a man who will only cherish you in secret while maintaining a public façade of a happy family? This dynamic not only diminishes your worth but also risks your spiritual and emotional well-being.

Consider this: the man you are with may be deriving strength from your virtues while offering you only trivial returns. Have you thought about the potential that lies within you—waiting to be unleashed when you commit to a path of purity? You have dreams waiting to be fulfilled, and you owe it to yourself and your children to pursue a life of integrity.

Step away from relationships that compromise your values. Embrace your destiny and watch as God transforms your life into something magnificent!

Stay tuned for more insights! May God bless you richly.

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