From Rent Hikes to Remote Adventures: The Journey of a Digital Nomad Couple
Sarah Khan and her husband found themselves facing an unexpected dilemma when their landlord decided to double their rent, a significant increase that prompted them to take a leap into an unconventional lifestyle. The decision to embrace life as digital nomads came after years of dreaming about it, fueled by their previous conversations about a life spent traveling, living near beautiful beaches, and reconnecting with nature. The turning point arrived during the COVID-19 lockdowns when the couple, like many in Singapore, felt the constraints of job obligations and an apartment lease that anchored them to their home city.
Not being able to afford our apartment was the perfect push, Sarah recalls. With their career situations aligning perfectly at that moment Sarah had been successfully freelancing as a content and editorial strategist for a year, while her husband enjoyed the flexibility of a remote job they seized the opportunity for location independence. Without the pressure of impending parenthood, they decided to embrace this newfound freedom and give the nomadic lifestyle a try.
So, they packed their belongings and said goodbye to their lease, taking the plunge into a life of exploration and adventure. Over the past ten months, they have transformed their lives as they made homes in various stunning locations, including Bali, Rome, Tuscany, Bangkok, and Phuket, with plans to infuse their journey with even more experiences in Alicante, Spain. Each destination has seen them spend two to three months, allowing them to immerse themselves in the local culture and lifestyle.
The couple's experiences are nothing short of transformative. There's no question: our life feels fuller now, Sarah shares. They have engaged in a myriad of activities that have enriched their lives, including participating in a digital detox retreat in Cambodia, hopping on trains to explore the picturesque landscapes of Italy, staying on a charming farm near Rome, and hiking through the breathtaking national parks in Thailand. Even the routine errands, such as grocery shopping or commuting to the gym on a scooter, have taken on a refreshing new perspective.
This adventurous year has not only provided Sarah with thrilling experiences but also allowed her to reevaluate her life perspective. She acknowledges that she used to feel pressured to adhere to a conventional path: buying a home, climbing the corporate ladder, and starting a family. However, this journey has unveiled to her the myriad of ways to define a fulfilling life. Throughout their travels, they have encountered inspiring individuals who are building companies, writing books, and crafting lives that prioritize meaning over traditional milestones. This new outlook has expanded her aspirations, making her realize that success can take many forms, rather than being confined to a single, well-trodden path.
However, life as a digital nomad is not devoid of its challenges. Sarah learned early on that the romanticized notion of being a digital nomad often contrasts starkly with reality. One common misconception is that such a lifestyle resembles a never-ending vacation, where work takes a backseat to leisure. Sarah clarifies, The reality is less glamorous: most days, you're indoors, working. She vividly remembers moments sitting in hotel lobbies, watching carefree vacationers splashing in the sea while she was tethered to her laptop, diligently meeting deadlines during her 9-to-5 writing shifts.
To enhance her experience, Sarah has established clearer boundaries between work and play. She has grown to accept that some days must be dedicated to work, while others can be reserved for leisure, allowing her to theme her days accordingly. Initially, the prospect of moving from city to city sounded exhilarating; however, the reality often left her feeling disjointed. Each new location introduced fresh sets of logistical hurdles, such as locating a suitable gym, adjusting to a new timezone, and re-establishing a productive workspace.
In response to these challenges, the couple has transitioned to a more sustainable lifestyle often referred to as slomad, where they spend two to three months in each destination. This slower pace has allowed them to cultivate a rhythm that feels more manageable, facilitating the establishment of routines that foster both productivity and enjoyment.
Sarah recognizes the significance of maintaining daily rituals as they travel. She has discovered that her productivity and well-being often wane, particularly during the transitional phases of adapting to new cities or time zones. After considerable trial and error, she has crafted a transferrable routine a series of simple yet effective practices that can be replicated anywhere. Utilizing a productivity app called Notion, she has shaped her daily rhythm as follows:
- 6:30 a.m. - Meditation and yoga
- Breakfast - Enjoying a meal with her husband at a local caf
- Outreach - Completing one visibility action, such as following up with clients
- Focused work - Dedicating 30 minutes to writing
- Movement - Engaging in strength training or Pilates
- Leisure - Reading fiction or enjoying favorite Substacks
- Wrap-up - Concluding work by 5:30 p.m. to catch a sunset swim
- Connection - FaceTiming or texting someone back home
Though most tasks merely take 10 to 30 minutes, collectively they help Sarah stay grounded and aligned with her overarching goals while preventing overwhelm. This structured routine alleviates decision fatigue, enabling her to find her footing in new environments and making each place feel like home.
As Sarah continues to navigate her nomadic career, this routine provides her with the necessary structure and space to engage in meaningful work while advancing her projects without constantly feeling behind. With ten months of their journey already behind them, Sarah and her husband had initially committed to a one-year nomadic adventure. Now, with their sights set on extending their travels for at least another six months, they eagerly anticipate the new experiences that await them, despite the occasional longing for the comfort of a permanent base. Though I miss the comfort and familiarity of a permanent base, were excited to keep exploring, Sarah reflects, feeling more equipped to maintain her grounding even amidst the constant flux of their journey.